Long-Distance Love: Watching Over Your Parents from Afar

Published on 05-23-24

Living far away from your aging parents can be a source of guilt, fear and constant worry.  But, by utilizing modern technology and proactive planning, there are some steps you can take to monitor their care and well-being:

Utilize Technology for Regular Check-Ins

Nothing beats a good old-fashioned phone call. Schedule a regular call with your parents at least once per week. But for the more tech-savvy senior, video calls through platforms like Zoom or Apple FaceTime can be ideal. If your parent needs assistance, some senior centers and libraries offer technology workshops designed for seniors. Also, Apple offers online resources at support.apple.com/en-us/105088 and Zoom provides online webinars at learn-zoom.us/show-me. And for those on Facebook, there is a free video chat option in Messenger.

Employ Remote Monitoring Devices

There are numerous devices designed to monitor seniors’ health and safety remotely. Some companies offer wearable technology that can track vital signs and send alerts in the event of falls or other medical emergencies, such as Lifealert.com and Mobilehelp.com. For specific conditions like diabetes or heart disease, there may be options through your parent’s healthcare provider. Many of them have partnerships with suppliers and offer these remote health monitoring devices directly through their practice. You can also contact local Medical Equipment Suppliers.

Coordinate with Local Resources

Establishing a network of local resources is crucial. This might include hiring a home care aide or engaging with local senior services. You can connect with neighbors, friends, or local church volunteers who can check in on your parents and report back to you. It can be as simple as driving-by to see if mail or newspapers are piling up, or a quick knock on the door to see that they are ok. Additional resources can be found by contacting Milestones at 855-410-6222.

Medication Management

Consider a smart pill dispenser that alerts your family member when it’s time to take their medication. Some options include Okpria.com and Herohealth.com. These dispensers verify the patient’s identity through facial recognition or a PIN before doling out the prescription. An app shows you when they took their medication and if they missed a dose.

Foster Social Connections

Encourage your parents to engage in social activities. Consider setting up regular visits to local senior centers or congregate meal sites such as Milestones Community Café. Perhaps an exercise class or support group. By having a regular schedule, you will know if they miss an appointment or engagement.

All-In-One Tech Solutions

Some companies offer comprehensive solutions that encompass all these solutions including video calling (with closed captions), digital picture frame for monitoring, health monitoring devices, fall detection, security systems, and even Medicare-covered virtual mental health therapy. Some of these companies include Livindi.com, Envoyathome.com, and Restassured.com.

While long-distance caregiving presents unique challenges, it also offers an opportunity to combine technology, local resources, and proactive planning to ensure your parents receive the care and support they need. Please note that MilestonesAAA has no affiliation with, nor does it endorse, any of the companies listed in this article. This is for informational purposes only.